So as I posted before. I sent a link to T re my childhood abuser being in the news Again.
I avoided taking about it Monday.
Then today I was looking at Ts bookshelves after T had referred to the link and I was trying to avoid bringing up again that I said "there's not a lot of purple books in the world. There's blues and yellows and whites, but not much of purple" 🤷*

T said so there's not a lot of (insert abusers name) in the world but because of him you can't see all the other people "

Blimey. That stopped me in my tracks.