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Default Feb 13, 2019 at 06:31 PM
 
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Originally Posted by KD1980 View Post
I filed a police report against him. The cop told me he wanted to take him to jail, but he was so high the cop said he'd do better in a hospital. His parents are rich and I knew I couldn't fight them in court. They'd hire a great lawyer and I didn't want to further traumatize myself by seeing him in court. They would have claimed i used him for the apartment. At that point I just wanted to get away. I didn't have enough support at the time to go through the court process.

I know people will say I should have, but I really hope no one victim blames me. It was awful to live through that, and I wish I had the inner strength at the time to see him put in jail. No one supported me at the time, and even my own "family" victim blamed me.
I'm SO sorry. No wonder you feel the way you do!!! I would sick to my stomach and just outraged at both their behavior.

Hard to go through court when you have no support. You probably did the best thing for yourself at the time, exercising good self-care tactics. I think that was smart, given the trauma. I also understand wanting him in jail for it too.

I am glad you have a professional therapist. What does he/she suggest for you?
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