If I was to see something like this....our system tends to freeze in dissociated confusion with everyone freaking out what to do or who to do it. Usually by the time we make a decision and refocus....the moment has passed. We then go into woulda shoulda coulda and get mad ourselves and this condition that has made us so weak.

Sometimes we spring into action: who ever jumps out and actually reacts- then **** hits the fan leading to shock, self-doubt, embarrassment, and at times: legal bills.