Again, I don't see the assumption this is a personal attack directed at you specifically. What I do see is someone personalising everything that is said is about them when it isn't necessarily so. It is easy to fall into the trap of assuming everything is about you - especially when we are vulnerable to the anxiety of 'what people will think about us' in the first place. Is it possible this is what is happening? Is it then possible you are looking for examples of people ganging up on you? There is a bigger issue here than concluding these people are bullying you.

Perhaps indeed they are, but I just can't make this conclusion based on what you have related. It seems rather convoluted and not quite logical. It is reasonable to me then to wonder if bullying you is not the case at all.