Like you've said, Aviza, it is your life and you need to make your own decisions. Opportunities like this are rare, so definitely move as soon as you can. Your mother will have to accept it, whether she likes it or not. She can't dictate how you should live your own life. I hope you'll like your new home. Is there anyone else IRL that could help you financially? Any friend or family members? I hope things will get better soon. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you