I remember mum get dressed to go to the grocery store. I remember mum putting roast beef in the oven before we kids and her went to church and dad sitting in his chair with the thick Sunday paper. I remember the folks getting dressed every Saturday for the card games the rotated between houses. I remember mum having the church ladies over and serving home made mints, roasted peanuts and assorted hors d'oeuvres on tiny crystal plates with matching cups for the punch. I remember riding up front in the bench seat of the car. I remember mums red lipstick and pointy dress heels and nylons. I remember that there was a very wide line between adults and kids, we were to obey our elders no back talk.