Hey Thirty shades,
I think try not to let what society thinks get the better of you please
(((Hugs))) - me, as well. We didn't make the world and neither did they, and look at the state of things globally anyway, it's appalling in many respects.
So you have to take everything society says with a grain of salt, I believe. I'm quite opinionated like that.
Yes, being useful is a good thing, but, do you do good things in your own way? Even in small ways? Yes, your supportive soul on this site has meant something to me Thirty shades. Small acts of kindness for people & for the animals as well, is plenty.
Let mother nature be the final judge
:-)