I'm so sorry, Gymgirl71 I completely agree with bunnyhabit and golden_eve. If your boyfriend asks you to give him some space, give him some space. Sometimes we just need some time for ourselves to reflect on things. Forcing someone to listen to you is not a good idea. You may get the exact opposite results of what you truly want. Anxiety is certainly hard to deal with. Do you see a therapist? Maybe that could help. You could learn new ways to deal with your anxiety. I'm so sorry, I know it's hard. Please don't give up. I hope things will get better soon for you and your boyfriend. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this