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Old 02-24-2019, 09:34 PM
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Default Re: How to make those feelings go away

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Originally Posted by octoberful View Post
Was is the fear?
Do you gave sexual abuse trauma?

Feelings like this can pass.

I didn't mind the sexual feelings for my T at all so probably hard for me to relate. I think my T is cute and I enjoy my sexuality....

But I sure can relate to fears. You've been really quiet here lately, hope your therapy is going well otherwise.
Abuse yes sexual a big gray question mark. Iíll never really know for sure

With my t in CA I didnít mind the attraction to him. It was a pleasant warm
Buzz but I didnít desire it to come to fruition.

I feel like I really know my latest t. I still only see him at his best so Iím realistic about that. It just doesnít seem fair that Iíd hit it off so well with someone I will never have a chance with. That it wonít go anywhere frustrates me.

I still come to pc but my t has been criticized here yet has never done anything I think is inappropriate. Others disagree. Our therapy is unorthodox but still has boundaries.

Even if he were a rigid t I think might have happened anyways. I donít know how to appreciate what I have and not long for more
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