I cant find that quote. Are you truly appreciating what you have? You ARE allowed to have it, and delight in it. Wanting more kinda keeps you from enjoying it, doesnt it? "Eating your cake and having it too" is actually the true order of the expression. What we get in t is symbolic - mine was, anyway. Like several winters of t wrapping my scarf around my neck. Literally, mom never did. Doesnt your inner child need anything? I feel like men could tell.