I'm so sorry, Gymgirl71 I'm sure many other people here on CP can relate to your boyfriend. I don't know if it has something to do with anxiety, but I believe it may play a part in it. Sometimes people with anxiety can only think about what they have to do next, such as going to work or going to the stored. Perhaps that's the source of his anxiety. He's really busy and he feels like he has to do everything. That's just my opinion, though. I may be completely wrong. I'd suggest to talk to him about this and see how it goes from there. Perhaps he isn't even aware of what he's doing. Be there to support him if you can. I hope things will get better soon for you and your boyfriend. That's all you can do after all. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this