So I am a lesbian and have been with my wife for almost 20 years. We have two sons 10 and 8. I don’t know if I am having a midlife crisis but I have been wanting to have sex with men. This has been going on for months. I haven’t actually done anything just constantly thinking about it. I have only slept with one man in my life but that was when I was 18. I just keep feeling like I am missing out on something. I just don’t know what to do. I don’t want to cheat on my wife.