I had a priest who was amazingly helpful to me in the start of my journey. I was deathly afraid of men but wanted to be able to participate without worrying all the time about him. Without him I don’t know where I would be. Personally when it came up (years later when I got married) I didn’t feel odd talking to him about being able to be intimate with my husband and he did not find it awkward either. I know of a few other pastors who were also amaizing T’s. So I guess it mostly depends on your comfort level.