I'm sorry. Perhaps I'm just old. (Well we know that's true.) But I'm unclear as to what you're asking here. Personally I avoid doctors like the plague as much as possible. But based on what experience I do have your doctor's performance, as you describe it at the end of your post, sounds normal to me. It would even have been normal in terms of how my former psychiatrist would have handled one of my (brief) appointments. I'd be absolutely amazed if I ever went in to see a doctor & they had any interest at all in anything beyond whatever it was I went in to see them about to begin with. It's really not their faults as individuals or as professionals. The practice of medicine nowadays is just a production line. The only thing that's missing is the conveyor belt.