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nonightowl · Mar 06, 2019 at 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Buffy01

Grief does that to a person. I have complicated grief!

So do I, according to the university grief group.

And it makes it more complicated (or maybe this is the reason it's complicated in the first place) is that I didn't have the greatest relationship with my mom or one at all really.

It seems surreal since she was so formidable, I mean how could cancer "DARE" affect her?

I haven't done individual counseling cause enough stuff in my life is solitary. I needed to hear other people's experiences, and I did get that.

I'm not sure at this point if they can tell me anything new or ground breaking.

For me personally, the only thing that makes it less raw is TIME. And I mean LOTS of time----not just years but maybe decades in some cases of people I lost.