Hello Spectrum: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC. I'm sorry I don't have the answer for you. Hopefully there will be other members, here on PC, who will have some insights they can offer. In the meantime, though, I wanted to simply welcome you to Psych Central.

One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the relationships forum. Here's a link just in case you haven't already found it:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/rela...communication/

And then here's a link to an article by our host Dr. John Grohol, Psy.D. on the subject of sexual abuse. The article provides links to a number of additional articles on the subject as well:

Coping with Sexual Abuse - Psych Central

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.