Thank you for the update, Marylin. It's good that you are setting boundaries with your sister and are also prepared to block her again at the first sign of problems. I have a tendency myself to overlook the first sign, and by the time I notice the second and third signs, the abuser's foot is already in the door...so to speak. Your update reminded me to apply "one strike, you're out" rule with my own narc abuser, should she and I were to resume contact again. You never know how your story helps others, and I really appreciate you sharing.

Hopefully, things will go smoothly and peacefully with your sistser as this is the best way. If not, you already know what to do to break off from her and get back to the peaceful state by yourself.

I'm so happy for the healing in your life.