I don't have to

- Look hot to impress girls
- Look cool to make friends
- Buy a motorcycle to befriend people who do not need me
- Be afraid of failure, because... life is succeeding even against the odds of failure.
- Pay attention to the fact that there's literally no one who can completely support me.
- Pay attention to the fact that I am a 'lesser' human being
- Tell myself I am lonely and all such things which I actually am.

What can be done about those things anyway? What will thinking about wounds and bad luck do about it?