I’m in this process to go on being evaluated. I chose to make sure about if I have some borderline traits, the whole disorder or what.
Anyway, I think you have the right to ask for what you need, in that case, to know for sure if you’re within the borderline pd spectrum.
Knowledge is power, isn’t it?
I’ve been also diagnosed with the same as you: Anxiety and depression. But, I know bpd is a very tricky one because, just with only considering that it’s a mood disorder and characterised by instability in any level of the personality, It doesn’t strange to me that a patient can have even doubts noticing and expressing in therapy what’s going on with him.
Luck, in your process!