Nobody is going to be "friendlier" because their toxicity is inherent to the species, not the individual. In fact, unless the person is outcast, there are no true "individuals" in a social species. All people inside society form a unified social gestalt, in which conformity is enforced and any difference is brutally punished. I was perceived to be "different" at an early age and cast out early enough and far enough to never learn how to be "human"; therefore I will always be outcast no matter where I go. That's how society works. Anyone who is different is denied everything in society until they die.