When my husband got home, I told him exactly how I was feeling about him. Mostly, he eventually talked some sense into me. Though there is still an area of disagreement but I am going to keep that between us. My T (don't go much but I still practice some of what I learned) did encourage me to not be afraid to express my feelings and have better boundaries and I have made progress in these areas. I also PM'd a friend on PC--I feel like that is more private. Feel free to PM me anytime.