These people are rare diamonds! If you don't reside next to a vein of rock producing diamonds... and you don't know anyone who works in the profession who would personally know such a diamond...
Sometimes I've had to answer my own questions because the diamond is inside me. I did once in my life find someone helpful through being the cleaning lady for a psychiatrist, but I was 20 and that doesn't seem like an appropriate/ statistically likely solution at your/ my age.
Could you possibly pm someone who you like/ trust here on PC? Lots of us have depth of experience in areas of our own difficulty where we are un-shockable.