Sorry you're having these worries Calypso I think you are understandably concerned.

Does your bf have a job...are you saying that he earns less than you will with your new job?

Here's what I recommend...grab a piece of paper...make a list of everything you need or want in life...everything...big or small...present and future. Now step back and look at your list. Does being in the relationship with your boyfriend mostly mesh with your life list?

A relationship should enhance or enrich one's life in some way. Based on what you've said, it sounds like perhaps this relationship is making your life more challenging in several ways. Zero judgment here. if I misunderstood, I apologize.

You deserve a very happy life with a loving relationship and to buy whatever phone plan pleases you