I have talked to him a bit about needing the sleep and expressed my worry about quiet time. He seems to understand. The phone and better quality supplies thing he doesn't cause he's cheap, primarily because he is an alcoholic and has to budget for beer constantly. Yes this is a problem, but he does pay the bills that need paying first. He just doesn't value good things cause the alcohol comes first. Which I get cause I was there not so long ago. I'm currently 5 months sober..
I've been a while no income, and he is currently about 3 months into this job. We are both getting back on our feet and putting things back in order and paying off some debts.
We see things from different places I guess. As long as I'm paying what I need to, buying groceries, and things needed for the house I'm going to get what I please. Lol. He has been, regardless of what I have said really. So I guess my paycheck is mine to do with how I see fit since his has been. Ugh. Sometimes I hate money matters.
Thanks everyone for the input!!