there is no hurry. no pressure. no one is pushing you to come up with the correct label right away, and not for nothing no one that label can be a fluid one over the course of your lifetime..like you might end up being bisexual. or it might be that for you watching sports is enough of a sign to point you in the right direction. everyone is different. and for everyone, whatever feel right is the right thing. what feels comfortable & works, is probablbly the right thing and what works. go slow, be patient and be gentle. it's a big club with big extremes :-)