I empathize with how hard it must be to be somewhat at odds with your husband in regards on how to raise the kids. I was very blessed to have no resistance from my husband in raising our kids. Hooray for small miracles! But, that opposition for you had nothing to do with anyone having MI. It was your core values regarding raising children.

Even if you feel you had much success and no conflict with your kids, it’s bound to hit you sometime. I say this because I just had a little head butt with my son, which surprised me to have had happen. What we feel good about in parenting, vs. what we feel bad about; I’m not so sure it matters so much in the relationships moving forward.