In another thread, where you were talking about not being able to talk about suicide, you said that he was tired of hearing about it. That really affected me. For whatever reason, I find it really hard to talk to my therapist about suicidal thoughts and that kind of response is something I fear a lot. I mentioned what your therapist told you in my session as an example of what I fear. For what it's worth, my therapist said that what he said is terrible and you need a new therapist.
This guy isn't hearing you and it seems like that's an important thing for a therapist to be able to do. I know you like him, but you can't even talk to him about major things going on in your life. I'm sorry you're going through all this and I hope you are able to get what you need soon.