With all due respect, both you and Sarah are wrong in this case. He definitely fits many of the traits that narcissists have. And labels are how we operate in society, so to say that labels shouldn't be the primary focus is very short-sighted. Labels are necessary.


To put it in terms you'd understand: how would you know what type of disease you have, unless your doctors have a label for it? You wouldn't know. How do you know which type of medication to take for which disease? Without a label? You wouldn't know, would you.


So, labels ARE necessary. It's how we function in society. We label everything. Without labels there is just chaos and disorder.


So, I am sorry but I think you and Sarah are so far off base, you're not even at the same game so to speak.


I do agree with your perception that I displayed boundaries he didn't want to respect. In that aspect, you are correct.