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Default Mar 18, 2019 at 10:45 AM
 
You deserve compliments and attention. You do matter -- your rational brain knows it but it seems like you do not "feel" that way consistently. Does he say he wants to stay married because of love? Why does he want you to stay? Why does he say he needs you? You threw him out, but how far have you really gone towards filing the divorce? Are you trying to force him to show he cares hoping he proves his love--desperate to be loved? Or do you now have contempt for him? Is this about hating yourself or hating him?

This is a case where if your H loves you, he might need to let you go. If he lets you go but you stayed friends then it would be proof that he really loves you.
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