Right after meeting with the clergy, my h continued to do his thing that neglects me. Then he chose his ‘friends’ over me by going out to dinner with them anyway, even though one of the ‘friends’ was such a POS to me over something. The true offense from the ‘friend’ was to my husband. It was his good friend who treated his wife like a POS. But my husband insisted on meeting them for dinner. So I refused to go. Maybe he doesn’t respect himself or me, but I won’t sit there with that POS. Knowing this is how I felt, husband went anyway.
I’m Rodney Dangerfield here. No respect!