That’s fine to ignore me and to tell me that I am wrong and you are right simply because you disagree with me. I’ll stand by what I’m saying : people label other people as narcissists when they shouldn’t. Professionals can do that and we can wonder about narcissistic traits but I don’t think it’s right to just evaluate an encounter with someone from an online Facebook group and go right to narcissism. And people with personality disorders are not lost causes and shouldn’t be reduced to some slapped on label by someone who had a bad experience. It’s insensitive. I am aware that narcissistic people can create pain and devastation in their wake. I’m not trying to defend the behaviors or the pain that a narcissist can inflict. I’m just saying it’s not right labeling people with things. I wouldn’t want someone to label someone who is “moody” as bipolar. It encompasses more than moods. I am not a professional so it’s not my job to diagnose someone.