You said she had enough but what did she have a Knouff of? You also referred to your girlfriend and your wife are they the same person? I'm sorry your two-year-old is also not with you that must be very painful . Is there any chance that you could sit down and have a conversation with her about what happened? I just wonder if there are details either that are missing or that we're not shared with you so that maybe you could do something on your end to make things easier for the both of you. When there's a child involved I feel it is very very good to work hard on the relationship between the two parents. The last thing you wanna do is upset the child correct? But then again I don't know if things were bad with you and your girlfriend or not. If they were some people say it's more Trumatic to stay together for the child then it is to split up. What do you think?