Sure, other people can do that. I have a fairly high sex drive that I’ve tried to suppress but I can’t. If the sex doesn’t work, I’d rather just be friends. Why do other people get to enjoy it and I never get to? I used to think I could have satisfying sex with a man but I was with one for four years and I think that was part of the reason we couldn’t stay together. I am having trouble imagining sex with a man being anything but the painful and frustrating act that I endured for four years. It seems like my only chance to enjoy it would be with a woman. I guess if that’s just as frustrating I can just spend my life alone taking care of my own sexual needs. I mean, that’s pretty much what a relationship with a guy is for me anyway.