I really should have just stressed that it appears to be hormonal.
She doesn’t have any in relation to physical sex. Has no desire. No passion.
Cannot feel any pleasurable sensations. I don’t know if I really believe this.
I think it’s just personal because of a very long and contentious marriage.
( Too complicated to get into here ). Doesn’t want to even talk about any possible solutions, or new , or different approaches to the subject.
My basic question is this , ( and I’ve put this out there many times) : Does a woman need “ hormones “ to have any passion whatsoever. Do you need hormones to want to please your partner even though you can’t be pleased yourself. Maybe I just don’t believe her.