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Originally Posted by whimsicalman
It may be less of a sexual obession that some type of "penis envy." So I read it more as a masculinity issue. Not sure how to advise or help, but I can say that I get it, to some degree. For me, though, it becomes an issue of measuring up in the face of sex with me, as I am a gay man. But I think that all men can share in masculinity issues, to some degree, based on their own situations, lives, and desires.
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It sucks because I really hate feeling like this. I feel worthless as a man just because I don't have a ripped body, large penis, and stunning good looks. I feel so insecure about every aspect of my being. I can agree with the masculinity issue because sometimes I feel I am not "manly" enough. Also, the "penis envy" can be quite paralyzing for me. I mean, like I stated before, I am not dealing with a micro penis issue, however I just feel I do not measure up to the "black standards" of penis size.
Lately however I have been catching myself when in these thought patterns and breaking out of it by shifting my thoughts to other maybe "positive" things about myself. It works sometimes. Also have been abstaining from watching any type of porn for the last few weeks just to break that habit. Will see how that goes.