i tried talking to my mom as a kid. she never felt like listening. recently when she wants to listen she just judges me for my replies. just after i was diagnosed for the 1st time, i mentioned to her that my ADD and anxiety made it hard for me to do things sometimes. she didnt quite yell, but she said rather angrily that i dont have add and im using it to get attention (i was super ashamed of it at the time and never mentioned it to people to avoid judgment) my mental illness that i had struggled with for around 3 years at the time was a phase that i would outgrow and even though i have a disorder, any struggles i have are irrelevant compared to hers.

long story short. i dont feel like i can talk to her about my teen problems. sorry if that was kinda tmi