Problems only multiply as we get older.
If the only major problem is with using your ph for nudes then there are always different outlets to explore other than using a ph.
I have seen what can happen to a mother /daughter when they both have an illness.
The daughter thought she knew best and took up with a man who treated her like dirt and fractured her spine with steel capped boots. She is now 26 but still has to wear a brace.
They both came together when she was hurt.

Just a true example of what can happen.