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Originally Posted by StreetcarBlanche
Like my my thread in this forum! 3 different posters pretty much invalidated my belief that the guy I encountered is a narcissist, making excuses for his behavior instead of validating my feelings about it. Then when i called them out on invalidating me, they deny it. I don't understand how these same people can be supportive of other victims of narcissistic abuse in other people's threads here but not with me (maybe they just don't like me, I don't know). It boggles my mind.
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And that is all I did for years,
telling myself:
"Maybe
I misunderstood"
Until I maxed out on my benefit of doubt for this person and came to see it for what it is.
So when someone else says,
"Maybe you misunderstood"
I feel like I'm being taken back to point zero, where I started.
So I wish people would read this article first.