I also can't imagine having an orgasm with anyone. I think I used to before I had experience. I'm not sure what being female has to do with knowing the female body better unless she has a ton of experience. I'm female and I wouldn't know what to do. I know what to do with a male body. I wouldn't be willing to share what I like in the future because I've been shamed enough as it is. They can do whatever they want and hopefully, I'll adjust to it.