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Originally Posted by Skull&Crossbones
Although, if I ever date again, I don't think I will ask for emotional support. Most people are incapable of providing and eventually make me feel bad for asking...and anyone capable is married so I can't really ask for emotional support from them. So I guess the trick is never needing emotional support.
Even after the good suggestions, I'm still unsure if I should contact her or exactly what I'd say. I've been trying to figure it out for months.
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You know what Skull&Crossbones, I think you are an ideal friend for most people. You are so considerate and respectful of other people's boundaries. You demonstrate self-regulation and moderation that some people lack.
You really deserve good friends.
The thing about people with families is that their first obligation is their families and they are often busy with them. I think the trick is to eventually find a single friend who are capable of providing emotional support. It takes time, but I'm wishing you the best!