This is a really interesting thread. Thanks BroccoliofLife! Are some folks saying that if sexuality were to be a big part of a person's identity, that must mean that they are flaunting it somehow? Or am I misunderstanding? Some people are much more sexual than others but I don't think that would inherently mean bothering others with their sexuality, right?

I think of sexuality in the same way as other human traits and behaviors. Existing along a continuum with a lot of degrees of variation.

What would be an example of someone "flaunting their sexuality outside the bedroom?" I'm genuinely curious....so many different perceptions of sexuality! It fascinates me. I wonder if there's a good book on the topic?