I hear you on the lazy part. I do not make the most money, but I manage money well and he can't at all. he would be in debt if he made 10k a month. he works for the railroad and he keeps most of what he makes and sends me what is left over. I work for a local poultry plant, and most of the time my paychecks are more than what he sends home. We are in a very LOW cost area, I insisted we move out of Oregon in 2008. We do not have children, but the work falls on me. The yard, the house and of course my job, which often has mandatory overtime. He has recently filed for a debt consolidation program, AGAIN. Fun things for him are sitting in his recliner watching TV while playing on his computer. I feel your pain. I too, have simply learned to "live" with it.