Another similar example:
In the pattern of “I’m a good client,” you may be unaware that you are wanting to perform and please the therapist, but as you work more in therapy, you recognise your process and come to understand during therapy that the “mask” of the good client has more to do with feeling scared to “get things wrong.” So uncovering the pattern of being a “good client” can get you more in touch with difficult feelings and move you into the next part of your process.