I am a woman who can "self-soothe" if you will. I have my own hobbies and interests and I don't need (nor want) my husband around all the time for them. Perhaps you can find someone who doesn't need you stuck like glue to her. It does not mean she doesn't love you, just that she has things of her own to do, and needs her own space. I have found that a lot of people have a problem with that.