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Default Mar 23, 2019 at 11:03 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Ohseedee View Post
Hello everyone,

I'm 27 years old today and instead of being happy, I'm thinking about how slow my progress in life has been compared to my similarly aged peers.

I'm currently a full-time college student who will be graduating from a two-year program in Social Service Work this May. Afterwards I'll be going to university to continue my studies. I won't get my university degree until I'm at least 30. Meanwhile, many of my peers from high school already have their Masters degrees.

I spent much of my young adulthood in and out of the hospital for mental health issues, so I'm starting late. I just feel...inadequate. I had so much potential before these mental health issues came and delayed my progress.

I should be proud of how far I've come and what I'm doing, but instead I'm comparing myself to others who have done so much more by this age.

Can anyone relate to feeling behind in life?
First...Happy birthday!!
Please don't compare yourself to anyone. You are an individual. I didn't finish my degree until I went back to school at age 40 due to mental health issues.
You still have a lot of potential...nothing's changed. I hope you can see how far you've come.

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