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Default Mar 23, 2019 at 12:35 PM
 
It IS your choice, and it is definitely not selfish. It sounds like you've really thought it through. It's up to you and your husband to decide, not your mother. It's your life, not hers. Just inform her, whenever you're ready, don't fret so much about what she thinks, and let her deal with it. It's her issue. Seems you're well prepared! And congrats! How exciting!

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