Good. Well done. Sounds like you know the choice that needs to be made, and you know that people care about and are supporting you. Give yourself credit m'dear - life is about honest relationships and dealing with challenges. If you have two caring relationships already, then you will find your way through the rest of it . Sounds like people around you have your back because they can see how positively you are dealing with this.

Your university tutor is representing that part of the outside world which has it's own agenda.