Thanks everyone. It's up in the air right now when things will happen which my mother and I don't like ( I have had to tell myself it's too early.....just try and get your ducks in a row first). Boundaries are a must. I am used to sharing things with my folks and I don't think boundaries really got established. I did stop the money talk though. She asked how much I had and I said that was personal. She didn't bring it up again. She does care but when her anxiety goes off mine goes off and yeah, not good. Still thanks for the advice everyone I am feeling better.