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Originally Posted by guilloche
Nice! Thanks for posting the quotes!
We were talking about this at one point, and I mentioned that I didn't want kids... in part because I felt like there was a lot that I wanted to do for myself, and I didn't think I had it in me to make the sacrifices necessary to put kids first.
He told me that was incredibly selfish.
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You are not selfish. As long as you love and care for others, and not
solely for yourself, you are not selfish. I knew a single person who dedicated her life to care for the youths in her community. It's ridiculous that people call you selfish just because you don't want to have kids. You care about your family and friends, and you are willing to contribute to supporting other women here on PC with your perspectives. You are not selfish at all. You are cool !