Just to warn you that if you work and he doesn’t or he is making very little if you get divorced you’d be paying him alimony. You do have to stay married for at least 10
years I think fir him to ask for alimony, he would also take a half of your 401k or other retiremrnts plans. I personally would never live with someone who either doesn’t work or makes significantly less becagse it’s too risky. I think seeing couple therapist and financial planner and a lawyer (for you to see how to protect yourself) is step one here.

You can also ask a lawyer to help you with post nuptial agreement. It might help you to protect your savings